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How Psychological Maintenance Builds Resilience and Happiness
“By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third, by...
Hilary Valdez
Jan 294 min read
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From Honeymoon to Heartbreak: The Silent Cycle of Domestic Violence
During the honeymoon phase of a relationship, happiness and hope prevails for the prospect of a future life together. In the beginning,...
Hilary Valdez
Oct 11, 20244 min read
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The Masculine Paradox: How Group Therapy for Men Unlocks Compassion and Transforms Lives
After countless hours of conducting group therapy for men, it is safe to say that we live in a world filled with complexities and...
Hilary Valdez
Sep 4, 20242 min read
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Free-Floating Anxiety: When Worry Takes Over Your Life (And How to Stop It)
All humans worry. But are you a worrywart? There is always something to worry about. Simple and difficult life challenges and choices can...
Hilary Valdez
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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Man Up! Breaking Free from Traditional Masculinity to Achieve Self-Improvement
Men who are difficult to deal with are difficult with themselves. Here’s the problem: The more men identify with the “old fashioned”...
Hilary Valdez
Dec 6, 20233 min read
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Anxiety and Weight Gain: Understanding the Connection and Tips
My whole life, I’ve struggled with weight. When under stress, I snacked, while watching my waistline expand: I felt worse. I found...
Hilary Valdez
Sep 14, 20233 min read
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Empowering Mental Health Resilience: Navigating Challenges and Embracing Healing
Ever wonder what people are thinking? I do, especially if I’m in a sour mood. What are they smiling at? Some people look so happy and...
Hilary Valdez
Aug 19, 20233 min read
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Helping Children Cope with Trauma: Navigating Christmas Eve After a Condominium Fire at Atsugi Navy
Christmas Eve, Atsugi Navy Base, Japan. Quite a few years ago there was a condominium fire where several children in the complex were...
Hilary Valdez
Aug 18, 20234 min read
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How to Improve mental health, Mental Health Notes Part 2
Worldwide, the three most common mental health disorder diagnoses are anxiety disorders, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder...
Hilary Valdez
Aug 4, 20233 min read
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How to Improve mental health, Mental Health Notes
Welcome to Life 101. Seems each day is a challenge to our personality and well-being. Every day we are bombarded with negative events...
Hilary Valdez
Jul 22, 20233 min read
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Conflict | Mental Notes with Hilary Valdez
No person lives free from inner or outer conflict. For example, personal conflict is within the individual
Hilary Valdez
Jun 14, 20233 min read
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